There’s been a lot of buzz about the stranger danger incidents that have been happening in our area. I did a little research on the internet and came up with a few tips to help talk to your child about Stranger Danger. Hopefully the schools have been addressing these tips to your kids. I know my children’s school has been very cognizant of what is happening. I am hoping to hear the same feedback from our local schools. Some parents have discussed a community watch/program for after school to keep our kids safe. Please e-mail me at eileend@macaronikid.com if you have any suggestions or would like to start a community watch for those kids that walk home from school.
· First, discuss with your child what exactly a stranger is and what they look like. There is no cookie cutter answer to how they look. But if the child doesn’t recognize them- they are a stranger!· Talk to them about accepting rides, candy, toys or anything a stranger might have to offer.
· Don’t get close to the stranger if they are in a car. Stay far away so that they cannot be grabbed by the stranger. { If they do try to grab you- run away quickly, scream “NO” and go to the nearest and safest area you can find. }
· If you feel uncomfortable with any adult- tell someone you trust immediately.
· Remember to let them know that some strangers can be good too- for example, a policeman or fireman, or the crossing guard. Try to go with your child to school in the morning and in the afternoon at least once or twice to meet these good “strangers” so that your children feel safe to run to them if they need help.
· Make a secret code word. Sometimes strangers like to scare your children into thinking they are there to take them to mommy or daddy. “Your dad is sick and I’m going to take you to see him.” Pick the code word and make sure they know to ask the stranger what the code word is!
· Let them know that they should always try to walk in groups or have a partner walking home. There is always safety in numbers.
I could go on- but please, take some time to talk to your kids and make them feel safe and let them know to trust their instincts. If they are uncomfortable ever- report it immediately to the appropriate people!
